People come into your life shockingly and surprisingly. You'll have losses that you'd never thought you'd have to deal with and you'll have to learn how to get up the next day and go on with it. At some point you have to learn how to forget about the grudges because they only hurt, and sometimes, the person you would take a bullet for is the person standing behind the trigger. I've learned to let go of the things that hurt, even if they mean a lot. Because as far as I'm concerned love is absolutely everything. I've put no rules on love for this reason. I just try to let love surprise me because you never know who you're going to fall in love with. You never know who's going to come into your life- and for me,when I picture the person I want to be with, I don't think about what their career is, or what they look like, I picture the feeling I get when I'm with them. I think the idea of finding another person to share your life with is the most fascinating, beautiful quest you could ever be on in life. And yes, living your dreams is important too, and a lot of time I've put that before everything else. But then you get to a place where the whole time you're living these dreams, you look beside you to say to someone "Hey, isn't this so much fun?" and if there's no one to say it to what's the point. I guess that's why they call me a hopeless romantic .